Vancouver WA Family Law Blog

Washington residents have likely heard many excuses why parents refuse to pay child support. Some parents simply cannot afford to pay it, while celebrities and other millionaires still find ways to attempt to get out of it. The latest child support battle involves NBA star Steve Nash, who plays for the Los Angeles Lakers. He claims he should not have to pay his ex-wife any more child support, as she already made millions from their divorce settlement.

But don't think that Nash doesn't do his fair share. He already gives his ex-wife a monthly payment of $30,000 - and she still wants more. In addition, he pays for most of the schooling, medical expenses and extracurricular activities for his three children - twin daughters and one son. He also pays for a nanny for the children.

Washington parents who have gone through a divorce understand that it's not easy. The parents must think about not only his or her own emotions, but also how their children are adjusting as well. Children undergo a variety of emotions after a divorce and it's up to the parents to help them get through this difficult time.

Although a parent may be tempted to badmouth the other parent - especially if the divorce is not cordial - the goal should be to prevent conflict. The best interests of the child should always be in mind. Having close relationships with family members, providing structure and guidance and allowing opportunities to grow will ensure that children stay grounded.

Many Washington residents probably know that going through a divorce can cause emotions and stress to get out of control. Imagine what it is like for a transgendered person to try to get a divorce. Although the divorce process can be complicated for any couples attempting to dissolve their marriage, transgender couples seeking divorce have encountered some obstacles.

An Arizona man is currently going through this battle. Born a woman and married to a woman, the man cannot get a divorce because the courts have deemed his marriage invalid. However, the man is continuing to fight so he can prove to his three children - whom he gave birth to - that his marriage was legitimate. He also fears that not being able to get a divorce could cause him problems should he decide to get married again.

Washington residents may understand what it is like to hurry up and get an undesirable event done quickly "just to get it over with". While rushing through divorce may seem like a good idea at the time, not fully thinking things through can have lasting negative effects.

The end of a marriage is almost always an emotional event. There is anger involved, as well as other negative feelings toward the other person, particularly if infidelity was involved. Many people try to get rid of this pain by giving in to the other person's demands. However, it's a better idea to think about something first before agreeing to something that a person may regret down the road.